How Lyndsey was Diagnosed, Part I - Headaches
As the Mom of a special needs adult child, it is up to me (and her Dad - but mostly me) to manage her health, remember her medical history, and decide what symptoms need to be checked out by a Dr. and which ones are minor enough to wait them out. This is a HuGe responsibility. The responsibility is also huge with children, whether special needs or typically developing. There are many things to consider: 1) her inability to communicate what she is feeling and the severity of it; 2) I don’t want to raise a ‘whiner’ who cannot deal with the everyday aches and pains of being alive; 3) I don’t like her being given a pill every time she goes to the doctor; and 4) doctor visits, medicine, and diagnostic tests are expensive! Then there is the 5) Guilt of making the wrong decision; of not acting or not acting soon enough. Every parent can relate to this and understand our position, emotions, and anxiety as we navigated Lyndsey’s diagnosis. Here is her story: In June, 2017, Lyndsey had h